How to Stop Sunday Night Anxiety Before It Starts
Posted on 13th March 2025 at 07:41
Why do I feel anxious every Sunday night?
Sunday night anxiety—also known as the Sunday Scaries—is that creeping sense of dread as the weekend ends and a new workweek looms. You might feel restless, irritable, or overwhelmed thinking about everything waiting for you on Monday morning. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone. Studies show that 76% of people experience heightened anxiety on Sundays (Harvard Business Review). But the good news? You can break the cycle and start your week feeling calm, focused, and in control.
If you're ready to stop dreading Sundays and start the week with confidence, book a Strategy Call here to get personalised strategies that work.
Emma's Story - From Sunday Night Dread to Calm Confidence
Emma, a marketing executive, used to experience severe Sunday night anxiety. By 6 PM, she would already feel her chest tighten, thinking about unanswered emails, upcoming deadlines, and the pressure of the workweek ahead. She would spend hours scrolling on her phone, unable to sleep, only to wake up on Monday feeling exhausted and overwhelmed.
After realising that this cycle was affecting her health and happiness, she decided to make a change. She implemented a Sunday wind-down routine, started planning her Monday on Friday, and gradually shifted her mindset about Mondays. Within a few weeks, she no longer dreaded Sundays. Instead, she looked forward to them as a time to recharge and set the tone for a productive week ahead.
"You don't have to start every week feeling drained. By shifting your approach, Sundays can become a time of peace, not panic."
If you're feeling like Emma did, know that you can regain control of your Sundays, too. Here's how.
Why Does Sunday Night Anxiety Happen?
Sunday anxiety isn't just about work; it's often a mix of unresolved stress, lack of preparation, and mental conditioning. Here's why it happens.
Anticipatory Stress
Worrying about the workload, deadlines, or meetings ahead can make you feel anxious before the week even begins. Your brain tries to predict upcoming challenges, leading to overthinking and restlessness.
Lack of Control
If your schedule feels unpredictable or overwhelming, Sunday night can bring a sense of helplessness. The feeling of being unprepared for the week ahead creates mental resistance, making it hard to relax.
Unfinished Tasks
If you didn't fully disconnect over the weekend, leftover tasks can linger in your mind, making it hard to relax. Unfinished business from the previous week can create a feeling of incompleteness, preventing you from fully enjoying your time off.
Sudden Routine Shift
The transition from a flexible weekend to a structured workweek can create mental resistance, making Sundays feel like an emotional rollercoaster. Your brain struggles to switch from relaxation mode to productivity mode, causing stress.
How to Stop Sunday Night Anxiety in Its Tracks
1. Plan Your Monday on Friday
Instead of letting Monday feel chaotic, set yourself up for success before the weekend even begins. Before logging off on Friday, create a simple plan:
List your top three priorities for Monday
Knowing your key tasks in advance reduces the feeling of overwhelm and gives you direction.
Schedule any must-do tasks into your calendar
Structuring your Monday helps you avoid the Monday morning panic of figuring out what needs attention first.
Clear up your workspace
A cluttered desk leads to a cluttered mind. Start your Monday in a clean and organised environment to boost focus and productivity.
"A successful Monday starts with smart planning on Friday."
This small habit reduces uncertainty and gives you a sense of control, so Sunday doesn't feel like an overwhelming restart.
2. Create a Sunday Wind-Down Routine
Anxiety thrives on chaos, so having a structured Sunday evening routine can help signal to your brain that everything is under control. Try this -
Set a 'No Work Zone' after a certain hour (e.g., 6 PM)
Avoid checking emails or preparing for work late in the evening, as this can heighten anxiety and prevent relaxation.
Engage in a calming activity
Reading, journaling, taking a warm bath, or listening to relaxing music can help slow your mind and prepare you for restful sleep.
Prepare for Monday in a non-stressful way
Lay out your clothes, pack your work bag, or meal prep for the next day without making it feel like a chore. Approach it as a way to make your life easier, not as extra work.
"The way you spend Sunday evening determines how you feel on Monday morning."
The key is to associate Sunday evenings with relaxation, not dread.
3. Reframe Your Mindset About Mondays
If you treat Mondays like an unavoidable storm, your anxiety will keep feeding off that fear. Instead, shift your perspective.
Start Monday with something enjoyable
Plan a small treat like a special coffee, a morning walk, or listening to an uplifting podcast. Having something to look forward to can change your emotional response to Mondays.
See Monday as a fresh start
Instead of viewing Monday as a burden, think of it as a chance to reset and tackle your goals with a clear mind.
If possible, schedule lighter tasks on Monday morning
Ease into your workweek with manageable tasks instead of diving straight into high-pressure work. This helps reduce feelings of overwhelm and makes the transition smoother.
4. Address the Root Cause of Your Anxiety
If Sunday night anxiety is a constant struggle, it might be pointing to a deeper issue—a misalignment between your work and well-being. Ask yourself -
Do I enjoy what I do, or do I feel trapped in my job?
Am I managing stress well, or am I constantly overwhelmed?
Do I need better work-life boundaries to feel more in control?
If the thought of Mondays consistently brings dread, it might be time to rethink aspects of your career or seek strategies to create a better work-life balance.
Further Support - Free Resources & Powerful Mindset Tools
To further support your journey in overcoming Sunday night anxiety, explore the free resources available on Maria Fuentes' Resources Page. There, you’ll find expert guides, tools, and exercises designed to help you manage stress, improve focus, and create a healthier work-life balance.
Additionally, enhance your mindset with powerful affirmations and relaxation tips from Maria’s YouTube channel. These simple yet effective techniques can help you shift your thinking, reduce anxiety, and start each week feeling calm and in control.
Take Back Your Sundays
Sunday night anxiety doesn't have to control your weekend. By planning ahead, shifting your mindset, and creating a calming evening routine, you can reclaim your Sundays and start the week feeling confident and in control.
"Your time is yours—don't let Sunday anxiety steal it."
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